How does one succeed in life?
10.06.2025 00:29
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
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Ask yourself:
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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That's it for today.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
It has been said that people with ADHD can often hyperfocus. Can that be an advantage?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Procrastinates a lot.
What I need from you?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Do not set goals—set systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?